Challenging 'I have X, so I can't do Y': The Power of 'I Can'

I have X, so I can’t do Y.

I identify with X, so Y is out of the question.

I have X and therefore I feel pressured by Y.

Nowadays, we identify with many attributes. This is good, as it marks the diversity of life and an increased inner awareness.

At times, it seems that we take shelter behind our numerous identifications as X. This diminishes our self-confidence, leading us to rely on convenient, socially acceptable excuses. Consequently, we become more sensitive and vulnerable than intended. The purpose of embracing our identities should be to liberate and expand our horizons, paving the way for personal growth.

It would be refreshing if we could advance beyond these limitations and embrace the idea of “I have/am X, and therefore I can do Y.” In other words, shifting our focus from X to the endless possibilities of Y.